3.15.2011

Lazy Mom Tip #52

I don't know about y'all, but we are forever trying to find a cleaning/chore "system" that works in our home.

Keeping the house picked up, much less clean, when you have kids is a constant battle.  And I mean, CON. STANT.

Can I get a witness?

You all have seen pictures of what my house usually looks like. It's not like I stage those pictures I post on here.  It's the real deal, folks.

The very shocking and sad real deal.

The embarrassing and humiliating real deal.

But the real deal nonetheless.

Anyway, Saturday night as I was lamenting over the state of the house for the 500th 29 millionth time in our married life, Lazy Dad suggested a new system for us.  Each person in the family is assigned a room that they are in charge of "overseeing" for the week.  Then at the end of the week we rotate room assignments.

As soon as the idea rolled out of that beautiful head of his, I was game. In fact, I think I even said, and I quote, "That's a really good idea."

So SEE? I CAN give Lazy Dad props. It just doesn't happen often on my blog for some reason, but I promise it happens often in real life. Promise.

I quickly grabbed some chalk and made out the following chart on our Chalk Wall:


Each room and the person's first initial of who's in charge of it. (We do initials a lot around here).

Every night the person in charge of that room has to do a "room check."  Pick up, straighten, clean, whatever it may be... it's their job for the week.

And just because someone else is in charge of the room doesn't mean you can go in that room and make a big ol' mess and expect that person to clean it up.

Nuh, uh. No way. No how.

That's grounds for punishment.  And not the cute little kind of punishment, the big ol' government kind of punishment -- waterboarding comes to mind.

I'm joking!!!

I think.

Now, we only started this new system Saturday night.  So far it's going really well.  The house has definitely looked better than it did before.  It's still not all clean and sparkly as I'd like it to be, but it's better.  And that's a step in the right direction.

And how many moms out there know that a step in the right direction toward clean house sanity is good, hmm?

Your kids may not be old enough to do this type of chore system yet, but hang on to this idea! It may be just what you need one day.  And I'll be sure and report back how it goes at our house.  At this point it's still up in the air, but I think it's very promising!!

UPDATE on 6/30/2012 (original post on 3/15/2011): We've been using this chore system for well over a year now and it WORKS! It cuts down on arguments, everyone knows what their job is, it's fabulous!

--
Don't miss the laziness! Subscribe to I'm a Lazy Mom via reader or email today!

17 comments:

  1. What a great idea, Lazy Daddio! I struggle with the same problem, and it seems like I've tried every "system" out there ... except this one. Love it!

    And I love your site, your writing is fantastic! Which is why I've chosen you to win a Stylish Blogger Award! Check out my post at the address below to read more about it ...
    http://booksatthepaperhouse.blogspot.com/2011/03/pay-it-forward.html

    Thanks!
    Devon
    Reading with Joey

    ReplyDelete
  2. I LOVE this idea! Getting the kids to pitch in in my house is true honest to god war that rivals WWII. Seriously. I've tried everything, even handipoints.com.....nothing works! Thanks so much. I am going to give this a try!

    ReplyDelete
  3. We've used assigned rooms for years. It works great, We don't rotate weekly, though. Changes only happen when all involved agree, and Mom approves. Since no one wants to rotate into the bathroom, that rarely happens. It was easier on me when we started, if I didn't have to be constantly training for new jobs. They're older now, 10-16, and just might like changing jobs weekly.

    Thanks for the idea. :)

    Linda @ Linda's Lunacy
    http://www.lindaslunacy.blogspot.com

    ReplyDelete
  4. Excellent idea! Can't wait until the kiddos are older! Like the chalk wall too!

    ReplyDelete
  5. This is a GREAT idea! I wish my hubby would be willing to try something like this. As it is right now I'm in charge of everything except the boys' room.

    ReplyDelete
  6. Really and truly, if you start them young, it is not such a battle. I am not saying they won't balk or try to get out of doing them, but if it is an expectation beginning when they are 2 that they have to put the toys in the basket, and just continue expanding their responsibilities, it doesn't have to be WW1.
    And you can rotate daily or weekly, or even monthly.
    FYI, I raised 4, and my daughter is raising 6, I made mine work, and she makes hers work. They are smart kids. And how else can you get stuff done if you have 6 kids, lol?
    Bernice

    ReplyDelete
  7. life is a constant state of Flux --
    Then Add Kids--
    and it is changing more-
    I have found that is there no "The Final Answer" to what works.
    Just "what works right now- until life changes again and we have to find something else"

    having said that- it is about time for a change in how chores are handled here. This might work. until it's time to change things again

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Very true! It works right now, until life changes! :)

      Delete
  8. Hmmm you are onto something here with this tip. We all share the clean up but dont have it broken down into specific room responsibilities. I really like this idea and will try it, might make it easier on the little guys.

    Stopping by from UBP
    http://postpartumillness.com/?q=node/455

    ReplyDelete
  9. We did this in my house when I was growing up. We switched Saturday night at midnight. Everyone's chore had to be done before they went to bed on Saturday night. Otherwise come Monday morning (Sunday was a day of rest) you had to clean up what you hadn't finished Saturday plus take on your new chore for the week. That was some pretty good incentive to make sure it was done.

    ReplyDelete
  10. i've just dicovered your blog today - what a giggle - your writing style is very fun and i'm loving your content... a lot of it has tickled my sense of humour but:
    "That's grounds for punishment. And not the cute little kind of punishment, the big ol' government kind of punishment -- waterboarding comes to mind."
    That is HILarious!!!! You're a scream :-)
    from Kylie in Australia :-)

    ReplyDelete
  11. Ha! Love it- and it's writ w/ good humor, to boot!

    ReplyDelete

Im a Lazy Mom LOVES comments! However, we do NOT love spam. Because of this we choose to moderate our comments. So if you do not see your comment posted right away, dont worry! We are just checking to make sure you are not spam first!

Twitter Facebook Stumbleupon More